27.1.17

goodbye, oreo

Since our cat Oreo was such a big part of my blog when I was updating it more regularly, I felt as though I should write something in honour of her. If you follow me on social media you will know that she passed away on Monday. She was really quite ill, although her illness came on quickly. We had a mobile vet come over and it was all very peaceful and respectful, with the (amazing) vet saying a little prayer as she injected the euthanizing agent. Oreo hadn’t been herself in a while, and she was about 14 or 15, so I thought it would be easier to say goodbye. It’s been wretched. She was a part of my life and Geoff’s life for 12 years, and there through so many of the most significant events of my life: moving in with one of my best friends, Annie, into the cutest and shabbiest apartment in the Annex; moving in with Geoff for the first time; getting married; having Luca. In the end she had lost a lot of weight, had a tumor in her mouth, and she was blind. Continued treatment might have bought her some time, but her quality of life would have suffered. Forever the food lover, she still managed to have a good-sized meal before she went.


Annie adopted Oreo from the Toronto Humane Society in 2004. Oreo had been there for almost two months, looked over. I found the document Annie was given that was filled out by her original owners; she was born in 2001 and was surrendered because they were moving. Oreo moved to new  apartments once with Annie and twice with us. We were originally going to look after Oreo as Annie got settled in New York City, but she became our cat.

Before I met Oreo, I thought of myself as a dog person. She was my little shadow, following me from room to room. She was quiet in her affections, but always a comfort to have around in difficult times. When I was hospitalized in 2014, I wanted someone to sneak her in for a visit and morale-boost. I didn’t know how much I would miss her presence. I keep seeing her out of the corner of my eye, I still sleep with my knees bent to accommodate her at the foot of the bed, and I still reach out my foot to see if she’s there. I keep expecting to hear one of her sneezes or funny little sounds that we called trumpets. I still say (like a dork) “We’re going home to kittens!” until I remember that there is only one now. When Luca came home for the first time she kept her distance, but occasionally came over to lie next to him. I worried about this, but it was always fine. I wanted him to know her as he got older. I got her paw prints in the mail yesterday, sent by the vet, and while it was the most thoughtful gesture, I definitely sobbed when I saw them. She and Pony were never friends, but Pony has stepped up the leg-rub game.

I am a little rusty in the meditation department but I have tried a golden cord meditation to try to tell her how sorry I am. Goodbye, original dream cat. I love you.

25.1.17

this is my happy: the happy baby carrier

I recently said that while Geoff has his thing that he spends money on (plants), I have mine, and that thing is baby carriers. I never thought I would get... addicted (?) to them, but I kind of am! I have already written about how I find them absolutely essential in the city (or otherwise!), but I also love having different styles on hand to suit my mood, or the situation.

Shortly around the holidays, Happy Baby released their linen soft structured carriers, and it was love at first sight for me. I was able to take advantage of an amazing Black Friday deal to try out the carrier in Charcoal, although I later couldn’t resist the carrier in Flax as well (a classic natural neutral). Linen is one of my absolute favourite fabrics ever, so this was very exciting.


What I love about this carrier is that it is so minimal in appearance but also in design; you can carry an infant in it without an insert, and there is a small hood that is tucked away in a pocket at the front. It’s incredibly lightweight, and because it’s made of linen, it will soften up with time. It is really unlike any other carrier I have tried! It can be used from newborn to 45 pounds. Luca is about 17 pounds at the moment and I carried him around the Royal Botanical Gardens for about an hour with no pain (and I am prone to back pain).

I feel like it is definitely one of the more stylish carriers around (when so many of them can look a little... granola), and it comes in so many amazing colours. I don’t need another but I have been admiring that marigold for ages! They’re also handmade in the USA, which is nice, and they have AMAZING customer service.


The images below are from Happy Baby. Ooh I just love that Charcoal!





16.1.17

keeping cozy with maxi-cosi

*This is a sponsored post in partnership with Maxi-Cosi Canada. All opinions are my own.


One of the first items we chose for Luca was his infant car seat. We knew how important it was for him to be not only safe, but also comfortable, and we also knew the hospital wouldn’t let us take him home without one! Luckily we made a great choice in the Maxi-Cosi Mico Max 30. I’ll be giving one away on Instagram soon, so look out for that!




This seat is wonderful: it’s much lighter than many other seats (just over 8 pounds without the base, which stays in the car anyhow!), and after purchasing the proper adapters, it clips right into our Bugaboo Cameleon or many other popular strollers, which is convenient since Luca tends to fall asleep in the car. It also happens to be a seriously adorable seat! When I saw the fabric on this Sparkling Grey model (a Snugglebugz exclusive), which is grey with tiny white polka dots, I was thrilled to see how cute it is. The fabric is also easy to remove and is machine washable. The seat is beautifully designed with a comfortable and ergonomic handle, gets high safety ratings, is easy to install with one-click UAS, and, importantly, fits in our car, which is a not-overly-large Honda Civic LX sedan. It also is one of the snuggliest seats out there: there is extra padding around the head, as well as an insert, which is very comforting to newborns. With some seats you have to add receiving blankets around the head for an appropriate fit, but not with Maxi-Cosi seats.


Bringing Luca home was such an emotional experience, of course. I remember when Geoff left our hospital room to get the car seat: I was so nervous but I couldn’t wait to get Luca home and give him a little tour of our apartment. We had the car seat installed professionally and had a lesson on how to use it a few weeks before, but the idea that we were leaving the security of the hospital with this tiny baby was overwhelming. I’ll never forget how it felt to see Geoff carrying the seat in the elevator, and I still have a photo on my phone of a teeny tiny baby sleeping in it (I felt so lucky that he fell asleep on the drive!). I had had a c-section so I wasn’t able to lift anything heavier than my tiny baby, but to be honest those first six weeks are such a blur. I look back at photos and think, how could I have had such a small baby? I also remember the panic I felt any time we went out with him: will he have a meltdown that will cause us to turn back around? It’s amazing to think of how much more confident I am now, and how he has grown into such a good sport as I drag him all around town in his car seat. I really love this seat! We may not have a luxury car but Luca sure has a luxury ride.



12.1.17

#forbetterbeginnings with playtexbaby

Today I’m happy to announce a new partnership with PlaytexBaby. Over the next few months, I’ll be trying out some Playtex Baby products, including the ever-classic Diaper Genie, and giving you my honest opinion about how they have worked out for me. This partnership means that I am now a “PlaytexMom,” and honestly, as someone who has spent many years yearning to be a mom at all, I’m excited to be a member of this group!


Luca takes a Sipster Stage 1 for a spin; the PlaytexBaby Diaper Genie Elite at home in our nursery

PlaytexBaby is committed to the idea of “For Better Beginnings,” and for me, that means making the best possible choices for Luca. Babies need so little to thrive in the first few months, beyond food and love, but carefully selecting products to help with everyday needs is also important to me. The first time I ever walked into a baby store to start looking at what was available, I was so overwhelmed, I cried. I reacted so badly that my mom didn’t want to go shopping with me again (whoops!). It’s just so much easier when you can rely on a trusted brand’s products, and PlaytexBaby has been around for over 50 years, responding to the ever-changing needs of moms and babies as we learn more about development and growth.

I’m looking forward to sharing more with you soon!